Love is inevitable but it causes unforgettable negative trends.

Blessed is the man/woman who avoids love without hatred. For you to merit joys in hell fire, try to love a cheat and selfish person.
He/She will not mind your distresses.
He/She acts to suit his/her selfishness. He/She could start with all seriousness and will dwindle at the same pace.

To curtail his/her indifferences, learn to act like him/her and see that you will make it though it may not be easy.

Never think challenging him/her because it would worsen your situation.
Though these are good, the best is to start pretending to love him/her and choose a better lover.

Sorry for the heartbreaks.